Man Refuses to ‘Date Ugly Women’ and Won’t Settle for ‘Second Best’
Due to his refusal to date ugly women, a single father believes he may be alone for eternity. In his quest for love, 42-year-old Kevin freely acknowledges that he has quite high standards, which he is unwilling to lower. He is sure that he can only fall in love with someone who fulfills all of his requirements. And he swore never to give in or settle, only to put down roots.
TikToker Kevin, a resident of Fife, told The Sun that he had high expectations for love. While nobody wants to commit to a relationship with someone they’re not entirely sure about, Kevin has slightly higher criteria than others. For the Scottish machinist, appearances are everything. “I’m not into ugly women,” he said, adding: “I’m not saying I’m Brad Pitt, but I know I can pull reasonable women.”
Long-haired and “busty” is how Kevin envisions his dream woman—though he disapproves of hair tied up in a ponytail. However, he knows how tough that is. He says, “It does make it harder to find someone if you’re only going for the high-end appearance. Your work is going to be a lot harder, and loads of other men are probably going to be after them. But I’m just not willing to settle for second best. I realize I could be on my own for a long time.”
Kevin, who goes by the handle @boerboelblade2 on TikTok, has been dating and is in a committed relationship at present (in 2023), but he was previously on and off for about three years. He claimed that his relationship with someone he met on TikTok at the end of the previous year (in 2022) ended after just one month.
His Experience With Present Dating
Kevin with his dog
Image Credits: TikTok/@boerboelblade3
The influencer clarified that because he hasn’t had a drink in years, he is unable to meet ladies through conventional methods like going out to a pub or bar. He is even less impressed with the dating apps, which complicates things. The dog aficionado says that many of his possible matches don’t write him back, and the ones that do won’t be as attractive as he would want.
As he says, “I’ve lowered my standards before and I never enjoyed it. I’ll not be doing it again.” Moreover, he is fine with being his lifestyle choice. He does harbor hopes of finding the ideal companion in the future, but he says, “People always ask me why I’m single. I could have a girlfriend. I’m decent-looking. I make decent money. But lots of men are single because they want to be and they refuse to settle. It’s a lifestyle choice.”
